Recently President Obama has been making news, promising to increase protection on college and university campuses to reduce the rate of sexual abuse victims. Sex crimes are prevalent among our campuses, and largely unreported.New policy concerning procedure, treatment, and sensitivity may change that, and correct a terrible problem within our schools. Eighty percent of all reported sexual assault crimes in the United States occur for people under the age of thirty.
The nature of sexual abuse is subjective. This is especially applicable in university settings, where large groups of people come into contact with each other and form relationships. Victims of sexual assault are often too embarrassed or ashamed to report a sex crime, especially if it occurred by someone they know- such as a boyfriend, or teacher. These kinds of intimate relationships blur the line, and potentially make a regular situation indistinguishable as a crime.
For example, you may not think that your jealous boyfriend refusing a condom, or taking away your birth control pills is anything out of the ordinary. That kind of behavior is typical for him. That is also the pattern of a sexual offender. You may have been flirting at the recent house party- but that doesn’t mean you deserve to wake up in a stranger’s bed with no clothes and no recollection of how you got there. Nor do you deserve to be sexually assaulted by a professor or advisor that you requested a private appointment with. Yet these kinds of examples happen all over America, and often go ignored and unprosecuted; or swept under the rug, so that the university where the crime occurred doesn’t suffer embarrassment.
Which is why federal policy makers have begun scrutinizing universities and local college campuses. California’s ‘yes means yes’ law that was recently passed serves as a model for learning institutions’ policies concerning sexual assault. Critics of this law, which also deals with claims of victims’ intoxication, say that it dangerously broadens the definition of sexual assault. But defining sexual abuse has never been a simple task- mainly because people, like college students who were in the wrong place at the wrong time, are too afraid to come forward. There has long been a need for a conversation concerning sexual abuse in this country, because experiencing that level of trauma, without any kind of closure, can alter a person’s entire life irrevocably.
Colleges should be a safe haven in which students can pursue their higher education goals without fear. Yet,nearly twenty percent of all men and women who attend university become sexual assault victims. For too long, antiquated and inefficient procedures have bred a standard of indifference and feigned ignorance, in regards to these abused individuals. Campuses that remain in denial about this problem only make the situation worse, by compounding the trauma, and providing sexual offenders a consequence-free environment. Keep in mind however, that developing policies concerning sexual assault on campuses is no easy task- just take a look at the scandal that has recently rocked Occidental College. Sexual assault cases that occur on campuses need to be thoroughly investigated, and properly examined.No Comments. Continue Reading...
Out of all the sensational and awful crimes that can be committed, sexual abuse is one of the most prevalent, and the least discussed. Many sex crimes go unreported, and as a result, sexual violence goes unchecked here, and in many other parts of the world. Victims are often either violently, or psychologically deterred from reporting their assailants. Not to mention, it wasn’t until the twentieth century that sex crimes, and sexual violence were even considered major offences.
What is sexual abuse? According to the World Health Organization, a rough definition of sexual abuse is any unwanted or non-consensual sexual act that is achieved either through physical violence, or coercion. Such acts include, but are not limited to: rape, assault, harassment, incest, molestation, forced prostitution, forced pornography, and the passing of sexual diseases onto someone else. Sexual violence occurs both in times of war and times of peace, and is considered to be both highly traumatic and highly pervasive. It is the most common of human rights violations across the world. Unfortunately, many systems of enforcement are weak, subjective, and in many places, non-existent.
Sex crimes are very sensitive, and typically extremely personal in nature. In practically every single case, the victim knows, and has a close or even intimate relationship with the perpetrator. This is largely why less than twenty percent of all sexual crimes are reported. Of the world’s population, it is estimated that over seven percent of women have been victims of sexual violence, and those are the reported cases. Men are also victims of sexual abuse, but the reported numbers are much lower. The numbers of children who suffer from sexual abuse however, are atrociously high. After doing research on the most recent statistics, it was found that nearly a billion people all over the world were found to be victims of a sexual crime.
There are seven billion people- which means that one in every seven people living on this planet, is a known sexual abuse victim. Sex crimes, and sexual violence occurs every single day, in every part of the world. People who experience the trauma of sexual abuse often develop mental health issues as a result, either with stuttered development, or serious depression. Many commit suicide, and some even go on to repeat that behavior onto others. Keep in mind that for every sex crime officially reported, twice as many occur, and go unchecked.
If you don’t believe that sexual abuse is a serious problem in this world, think again. By not raising awareness and making sure sexual assault victims receive the treatment they require, we are only ensuring that this problem continues to grow. When we refuse to recognize that there is even a problem, we only succeed in making it worse. With as often as sexual violence occurs, you’ve probably been in contact with a victim, or are one yourself. Remember, if you have experienced sexual assault, or know someone who has, keeping quiet on the subject will only cause greater damage.No Comments. Continue Reading...
Sexual violence is prevalent throughout the world. The legitimate numbers are difficult to gather and conceive, mainly because sexual crimes often go unreported. It is estimated that twenty percent of all men and women are known victims of sexual assault in the United States alone. In lesser developed countries, and even some developed ones, that number is much higher. Keep in mind though, that just in the United States, sixty percent of sexual assault crimes go unreported. China, which has the greatest of the world’s population, only reports a little over three percent of their sexual crimes.
The reason this is such a problem, is because of the trauma suffered by sexual assault. Not reporting such crimes only further damages the victim, and it also enables the offenders to continue their crimes. This sort of thing should not be allowed to go unchecked, and yet it does, more often than not. Why is this? It is because sexual violence is a violation upon another human being- both physically, and mentally. The victims are left feeling used, confused, and most importantly, they are made to feel powerless- which is usually the goal of the perpetrators.
When you sexually assault someone, you take away their sense of control. Every single person, man, woman, and child, has a human right to decide how their body is treated. Sexual offenders take away that right, either through physical violence, mental coercion, or both. This leaves victims feeling helpless, unable to escape their situation and the shame that arises from the trauma of the experience. This is what perpetrators prey upon- they use this understanding to enforce their behavior, and rely upon the victims’ subsequent silence.
Because of the word ‘sex’, people often mistakenly believe that sexual crimes are based on, or stem from desire. In reality, they are mainly about power. Sexual abuse is about the power one individual holds over another, and the power offenders are able to take away from victims, through force. There are three main differentials used in determining abusive acts, and all are related to force. These are the level of: gratification between the victim and the offender, the level of power, and the level of knowledge.How well does the perpetrator know the victim? What is the nature of their relationship, and how much information does each one have concerning the situation? How much satisfaction did victim and offender derive from the event? How much did the victim suffer at the hands of the perpetrator?
These are all questions that are asked when qualifying the nature and severity of a sexual crime. The level of trauma is determined from studying this. For example: an employee who is blackmailed by his boss into having sex does not experience the same level of trauma as a child who has a history of being abused by her father- although the end result might be the same. A wife can be uncomfortable with certain sexual acts her husband forces her to participate in, but this is not the same level of discomfort that is experienced by in inmate in prison who is raped by the guards. All these acts can lead to depression, and suicide, however all of them can be prevented in future attempts, with knowledge and awareness.No Comments. Continue Reading...
E liquid UK has some great ideas about advice for victims of abuse. The first thing that an abuse victim needs to know is that it is often not your fault. Take for example the issue of anger. People who cannot control their anger often blame the abuse victim for the reason why they get angry.
They may make statements like, “You made me do it” or “You are always pushing my buttons.” These type of statements are made from an angry person so that they feel no blame for what they are about to do. Do not be misled these false statements.
A person who cannot control their anger in a relationship needs to get professional help. Many times these type of people have had anger issues all of their life. It may have started at home when they were very young and their parents did not fulfill their responsibility to curb it.
Some people who show constant bouts of anger may feel that they are unable to cope. They may have bouts of anxiety as they sense certain situations developing badly. To control these feelings and the environment around them they lash out at whoever is closest and dearest to them. This is usually a spouse or a child. In recent studies it has been proven that a husband’s abusive behavior and anger are connected to feelings of failure.
These feelings a failure may stem from and in adequacy to be a good provider or protector for his family. He may also have issues in regards to being a good parent or a good husband. This comes from an inadequacy in regards to relationships. This is very common amongst men.
It should be mentioned that not all abuse is in the form of criticism, sarcasm, or shouting. There is also an abuse that is silent. Many psychologists call this a form of disengaging or stonewalling. A husband for example will not engage in any meaningful conversations. If he decides to disagree with you he will punish you by remaining silent.
Some of the terms that you may hear from a husband to abuses his wife with the silent treatment are things such as “Leave me alone, do what you want.” It has been proven that a lot of silent abusers are also womanizers, couch potatoes, or obsessed with sports or other activities. His way of dealing with his inadequacies when it comes to a relationship is simply to not say or do anything.
And you have a husband to abuses by means of silence he can make you feel unattractive and unimportant. Eventually you may develop feelings of inadequacy. This may lead to serious depression. Must place that live this type of abuse mentioned that they feel like a single parent when it comes to child-rearing issues.
E liquid UK is concerned about victims of abuse and will do everything that they can provide you with information that will help. There is also a lot of excellent information on the Internet.No Comments. Continue Reading...
If you have ever spoken with someone that has been the victim of abuse, then you understand how difficult the situation actually is. If not, you might wonder why these people do not simply call the police if they are being beaten, or abused on a regular basis, and it all comes down to psychology. These individuals are typically the weaker ones in the relationship, typically female, believing that if they say anything they will be hurt even more. They also may not know that they have any options, or they may not have a place to go, which makes them believe that they must suffer with the abuse because it really is their only choice. But in reality, it’s not their only choice, and if you do come across someone that is obviously being abused, there are certain things that you can do in order to help them out.
The first thing that you should do if you are ever with somebody that has been the victim of what you believe to be some form of physical, or even mental, abuse, is to talk to them, make sure that they are okay, and if there is anything you can do. During your conversation with this individual, the last thing that you will want to do is tell them that they should go out and get a bulletproof vest. This will not be inspiring, nor would be telling purchase a bullet proof vest or for them them to visit an Israeli weapons store to find a bulletproof vest. It’s all about nurturing, reminding them that they are extra special, that they are here for a purpose, and that no one needs to be treated in this manner.
Once you have built some trust with this individual, you might want to ask them if they do need some help. They need to trust you, which is why you had the initial conversation. After which, as a friend, it will seem very normal for you to reach out and offer to help them in this way. They may not be open to talking to the police, and if there are no bruises, there is no proof. At the very least, however, you need to put them in touch with counselors that can help them out, professionals that deal with abuse victims, so that they can get the help that they need.
After you have done this, there is really little else that you can do to help these individuals other than give them your phone number and tell them that anytime they are feeling down, you are there to talk. If you do become friends, it might be the beginning of a great relationship, and you might be able to help them navigate away from the disastrous relationship that they are in. Just be sure to be careful, as in some abusive relationships, the other person could be dangerous. Just make sure that you are taking care of yourself, and along the way, you will be able to do this good deed without placing yourself in any type of danger.No Comments. Continue Reading...
Domestic abuse can happen to anyone regardless of their age, income bracket, gender, sexual orientation, race or location. Many people who observe abusive relationships from the outside wonder why the abused party doesn’t leave. Although it is easy to judge from an outside perspective, if you have ever been in an abusive relationship you know the answer is not so cut and dry.
In some cases the abuser has instilled a fear so deep in their victims that they are afraid they will be hunted down and beaten or killed if they try to leave. In other instances, the abuse is more about mind control. The victim comes to believe that they cannot survive without their abuser or that they deserve the abuse that they are getting.
Abuse is not always physical, either. Emotional abuse can be just as devastating as physical abuse, and is often harder to break free from. With emotional abuse it is often more difficult for friends and family members to realize that someone is being abused since there are no physical symptoms such as cuts or bruises.
Breaking the cycle of domestic abuse takes a tremendous amount of willpower and a solid plan. If you or someone you love are currently in an abusive relationship, the following tips can help you prepare to leave:
If you are in a physically abusive relationship, it is important to leave as soon as possible. All of the rest of the steps can come later. The longer you stay in the relationship, the more at risk you are of being permanently injured, or even killed. At the first opportunity, head to a local shelter and seek refuge. The counselors at the shelter can help you get the rest of your life in order once you are safe. Don’t tell your partner you are leaving since they may feel threatened and respond with violence.
Start saving as much money as you can. Many people stay in relationships because they don’t have the financial resources to leave. Saving money can give you the independence you need to break out on your own. If you can’t save money, however, don’t let it keep you trapped in an abusive relationship. Reach out to a local shelter for help.
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A restraining order is a court document that forbids your partner from coming within a specified distance of you at any time. Once you have left the relationship, a restraining order can give you legal ground to stand on if your ex violates your space.
Leaving an abusive relationship is far from easy. However, with a solid plan and some dedication, you can get out of the relationship and start living life on your terms again.No Comments. Continue Reading...
Being a victim of abuse often makes people feel like they were targeted. This is when the victims are often going to feel abandoned by friends and family as well, who may not understand what is going on and cannot really help. This is when people need to know more about how they can help victims of abuse, even if the abuse came at the intensive driving schools people attended.
Understanding of the abuse is the first thing people need to do. While some people will think they understand all the situations that people are being put into, they need to realize this is not the case. In fact, most people do not have any type of concept as to what an abuse victim goes through and this often means they are not going to have good advice. However, if people sit down and listen to the victim of the abuse talk, they will start to learn more about what happened and how it impacted their life.
Consoling people and helping to comfort them right after the abuse helps people out as well. While most people will continue to suffer from the abuse, even with consoling, they feel better when they are comforted. The comfort can be something as simple as listening, which was already mentioned, to the extreme of taking people to the doctor to get some type of treatment for the abuse they have been put through.
Support of the victim and convincing them that revenge is not the best option is the next step for people to do. While some people think they are going to want to get revenge right away, this tends to make them a target of the abuser again. So people need to make sure they are not going to do anything crazy and not going to seek out revenge. This means people do not have to be concerned about people going back to the abuser for any reason.
Providing information on who to consult with for getting the abuse stopped helps out as well. While most people think the police is the best choice, they need to realize the police may worsen the situation. So people need to make sure they understand the type of abuse and then have a better understanding on who can help to prevent the abuse.
Quite often people need to make sure the victim gets the right type of medical treatment. Sometimes people do not realize some form of medical harm happened, but it could be hidden. So people need to make sure they are properly evaluated for the abuse they experienced.
As many people have found out, abuse can happen at any location. This means people can be abused at any time and any place around. However, what people need to realize is when they are attending their intensive driving schools, like those at expert driving education the abuse should never be happening. The key thing people need to know about is how to help abuse victims.No Comments. Continue Reading...
Police departments are working hard to protect people from domestic violence and other issues where their bodies are put at risk. These departments understand that people are often at risk of being attacked or harmed in many different ways. In some cases they may be at risk of harm from those who are the closest to them. This is a real problem for some but the truth is that many people need to be checked upon as well as possible if they are going to be protected.
One way how police departments are able to help is by using web conferencing programs. A web conferencing comparison from
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These programs can help people to get in touch with each other and to stay on the same page. This is crucial as a police station is always going to work well when protecting people if the right plans are used with care. This can really work wonders for those who want to stay safe and for the professionals who are out there to secure everyone as demanded.
The ways how police departments are able to use these web conferencing programs nowadays are among the best things for all to explore. These processes include the following features designed for use by many people:
• People can use web conferencing tools to record meetings with officers on different beats in real time, thus making sure that everyone can keep on the same page no matter what types of cases have to be investigated and studied as required.
• Many programs can also help with getting officers in touch with those that they are to protect. In some cases criminal justice experts can get in touch with victims from different areas who need help with getting the protection and support that they need.
• Conferencing programs can also help people to devise plans on how to capture criminals or suspects and for how to protect the people who need help the most. This can allow a team effort to be put in play when getting some process for protection out there for everyone to use as needed.
• In addition, police stations can use these programs to keep in touch with others by studying patterns and sharing files with others. These files may include reports that cover information on how different types of crimes are being committed in certain spots and what can be done in order to prevent these crimes from being more of a threat than they have to be.
Police departments can really do well when it comes to getting more web conferencing functions ready as needed. If these functions are set up right then it should be very easy for more departments to be as protective of the public as necessary. After all, sometimes it can be critical for people to be secured in many ways so they will not be at risk of being harmed in any form.No Comments. Continue Reading...
Every person is afraid of something but it always seems like that fear is more prevalent in a college setting. Many people are often afraid of being hurt while on campus. Others are often stressed to the point where they cannot actually handle their work as well as they have hoped.
Either way, fear has become a real constant in college. The aspects of fear that are especially visible on many campuses further proves the concerns that are held in many academic settings.
Many people who are at college campuses are often far away from their homes and are uncertain as to what they should be doing. They know that there are not too many familiar faces where they are at, thus giving them concerns as to what they are doing in their lives and if other people are really going to be there for them.
This can really create a feeling of isolation in some people. While having a good circle of friends and belonging in some strong peer groups while in college can be ideal for all to think about, it is still important to consider how there’s a real sense of fear that might come about no matter who’s supporting who. Some people may not have much of a sense of trust in even the new friends that they are making while on campus, thus creating a real sense of fear over what’s around.
Some of the biggest fears comes from how some people are too burdened with loads of stress. Many students are dealing with too much work at certain times and might not be able to handle some of the tasks that they are expected to do in their courses. Sometimes the fear that comes with trying to complete this work can make a negative impact on one’s grades. This is why those “we do your essay” sites like premiumpapers.net are getting as much business as they have been. They know that so many people are too afraid of their work after a while because there is so much to do.
There are also many people on college campuses who are often willing to experiment with all sorts of interesting things. Some people might be willing to experiment with certain substances that can cloud their judgments, thus making them rather dangerous to the public. Others might have certain attitudes and may not be all that favorable to certain people on college campuses.
The random nature of experimentation on any college campus can be a great thing to fear. What makes this even worse is that the people who are experimenting might start doing so at random times and not even think about what they are doing in terms of whether or not the things that they do are logical. It seems unusual but it is a pointer that is frequently found in many lives.
Fear is not something that is foreign to anyone. However, it is something that may be compounded by quite a bit in many college campuses.No Comments. Continue Reading...
Your books can be important to your life but it is rather easy for them to be damaged at times. This is especially important if you have older books that are a little more fragile in nature.
However, you can always use a few preventative measures in order to keep your books safe from damages. These measures can work well for when you are trying to protect all those pages in your book so they will not be at risk of serious damages at any given time.
The thing about these measures is that you will have to ensure that the pages in your books are protected as moisture will cause them to suffer from too much stress. This stress can cause them to dry out and crack up rather quickly. This is a threat that can harm any book. However, like with the best deodorant for men at http://www.odorify.com, a good series of books in your home can be protected from moisture. You just need to use these simple tips to ensure that nothing wrong is going to be a real threat to the books.
• Allow some natural light to come into your room where your books are. A bit of natural light can help to dry up a space but this will especially work if you have plenty of rays from the sun getting in there. Be sure that you avoid having the books come in direct contact with the suns rays just to protect your books though.
• You can use a dehumidifier in your room if needed. This is a type of material that can clear out any moisture in your room, thus making it safer for you to work with as needed.
• If you are storing your books in a room with an air conditioner then it will be best to keep your books as far away from the AC unit as possible. This is to keep the cool air from the unit from getting all the way into the bookshelf.
• Stick with non-glossy paper if possible. Paper that has a glossy body to it can end up being rather hard to work with due to the fact that it is slicker and more likely to take in water.
• Make sure you keep your books out of reach of younger children. It is best to allow your children to use books that are appropriate for their needs; in particular, smaller children may benefit from books that have thicker pages and bodies and are easy to handle a bit of pressure from one space to the next. If your children are clean and responsible then they can handle books without worrying about lots of moisture moving around.
Be sure to use all of these tips in order to keep your book safe and free from many problems relating to moisture. These problems can be a hassle but if you understand what you need to do then you can keep your books intact and readable for generations to come.No Comments. Continue Reading...
Many people will want to lose weight over time. They will do this as a means of staying healthy and looking their best. Some people will look to use a Nutrisystem discount code SBD because they know that a Shop-By-Diet discount code for Nutrisystem can help them get access to new weight loss options.
It’s clear that the task of losing weight can be done with all sorts of dietary and exercise-related activities in mind. However, this does not mean that all cases of weight loss are intentional.
In many instances people who have been abused will suffer from dramatic amounts of weight loss. That is, a victim may be subjected to conditions that will keep one’s body from being able to get the physical assistance that it needs for staying healthy and active. This can be a real problem as a person who loses more weight than desired might be at risk of serious medical problems.
This weight loss from abuse often comes from many issues that can have a negative impact on the body:
• A person can be forced into heavy labor. This includes labor that goes well beyond what one can normally do. It may be compared with modern-day slavery in the worst cases.
• Regular meals may also be withheld from a person.
• In some cases a person who is being abused will not receive access to any medications one might require.
These are often things that can cause weight loss in people. In particular, this weight loss will come not from fats being burned off but rather from muscle fibers and tissues around the body wearing out. The lack of nutrients in the body and the excess fatigue can cause one’s body to wear out over time. This will not only cause weight loss but also a significant decline in one’s energy and physical activity levels.
There are many additional threats that may come about as a result of weight loss from physical abuse:
• People who have been abused are typically unable to handle their foods the right way. They are often more likely to go through episodes of vomiting or nausea.
• The liver may start to fail over time. It may not know how to handle certain materials that come into the body due to those materials not having come along in a while.
• Dementia and other mental issues may also develop. These can cause people to feel that eating is not something that is worthwhile due to the possible risks that may come with doing so.
• People who lose more weight unintentionally are often at a higher risk of infections or depression. This is especially the case with the elderly.
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The threat of weight loss is something that all abuse victims need to understand. It will be critical for those who have been victims of physical or sexual abuse to consult a doctor for help with not only the mental aspects of the abuse but also the physical results. This is to ensure that the body is capable of moving beyond the threats that come with violent activities.
The fear that comes with sexual assault or any other form of violence can be devastating. A person who has been victimized by such an action may not understand where to turn to in order to get the help one needs. This often causes many people to continue to suffer in silence.
Naturally, YouTube marketing has been used for many causes as YouTube marketing helps to promote different organizations that can support people in many ways. This is something that can certainly be said for those who are looking for help after they have been victimized by an instance of sexual or physical assault.
The fact is that assault is not something that a person can easily recover from. A person who was assaulted five years might be using YouTube today and will find something that might trigger a flashback to that moment from so long ago.
It is a truly difficult and emotional concern that can harm the livelihoods of many people. This is why many YouTube marketing campaigns are often held to get people to learn about what they can do in order to seek help. This is important for those who have been victimized as well as the people who are close to the person who has been hurt so long ago.
These campaigns are typically created by organizations devoted to helping victims of abuse. These organizations do this with many intentions in mind:
• They understand that it is easier to find people online and to offer help through many websites.
• The outreach can be done at any time; this is especially critical for those who may end up losing sleep as a result of the emotional stress that comes with abuse.
• They know that there’s a need to establish an outreach in just about any place in the world. This includes the online world as it is.
• Sometimes people might also have an easier time responding to online requests for help. Sometimes these requests can come from those who truly understand every aspect that comes with abuse.
The ways how YouTube is used to promote help for those who have been harmed can be important:
• It offers information on what people can do in order to cope with their mental issues.
• It discusses the ways how professional therapists can help victims. Therapists may talk online about how different solutions may be utilized in order to enhance one’s ability to respond to cases of abuse.
• YouTube may even provide people with details on how to survive flashbacks if they ever come around.
• Those who might engage in abusive activities may also be consulted. They may learn from many videos about how they can stop perpetrating such actions and how they can reach out to help those who might have been hurt by their actions.
The information that is profiled on YouTube can be very important. YouTube marketing is used when talking about cases of abuse with more than just the need to help people in mind. It is also to let people know that there are others out there who care about them and their well-being in the long run.No Comments. Continue Reading...